Friday, January 28, 2011


More than often now in the world of dating, you meet someone, exchange numbers and have a few conversations, go out one time and then never hear from that person every again.

Does this sound familiar?? Well, chances are why you were on that date, you may have discovered a personality trait that screams NOT GOING TO WORK!  Now the date may not have been bad, however a sure red flag flies high letting us know that a long-term relationship with that person won't work out. 

For men, there are 5 types of personality traits of women that they tend to avoid..here goes ladies:

 1.) The Flirty Bird
 Men love women who flirt. Men are attracted to a good flirt because besides being fun and charming, she's definitely not shy.  The flirter shows interest right off the bat, making the "getting to know you" aspect of courtship all the more easy. For a guy, not having to do all the work is a relief!

But there's a difference between a situational flirt and a serial flirt, and the latter is something that men just don't want to deal with.  A serial flirter giggles, touches, and tosses her hair at everyone: the best friend, the boss, the father. (borderline..I know..) After awhile, guys realize that the Flirty Bird needs constant attention because she is stricken with major self-esteem issues, therefore needing to compensate her insecurities by having constant approval from different men.

2.) The Commitment-Phile
Imagine that you're a guy for a second.  You meet a fantastic woman and you're having great first date. the lighting is just right and the food is perfect.  You're having a great conversation and just beginning to get comfortable when..POW!! Your date starts talking about your wedding location, how many kids she wants..etc.

It puts a lot of pressure on a guy right off the bat.  In any healthy relationship, the first couple months-and especially the first couple of dates - should be kept light. A woman who fast-forwards to the happily ever after makes guys worry if they really are a perfect match. 

3.) The Cling-On
A needy nuisance, this gal can't go anywhere or do anything without the company of her man.  She adopts his interests, calls 15 times a day and flies off the handle anytime she's not around to monitor his behavior.  The Cling-on is more work than a relationship deserves. She is there at your beck and call and relies on you to entertain her because she basically has no life of her own.

4.) The Party Girl
When men meet this ball of fun, they think she is the life of the party.  She's carefree, maybe a little wild, and from the outside looks like a person they be interested in.  Once a man gets a closer look, however, they realize that her entire life is a party.  While a guaranteed good time may seem like a good idea, what will she be like in the sobering light of day? (ponder on that..)
her hilarious antics, outgoing personality and excessive dance moves are good in small doses, but the Party Girl doesn't know the meaning of "closing time". Its heard to have a healthy relationship with a person who is masking major problems underneath his or her party hat. 

5.)The Windbag
Yakkity Yak! The Windbag is the woman who never shuts up, barely stopping to breathe.  Seeming only concerned about what is going on in her life and sharing her insights, this Chatty Cathy also has Drama Queen tendencies written all over her (not good..at all.).
The Windbag makes a man feels obsolete, not to mention its annoying.  Most people think it takes two to have a conversation, but not The Windbag.

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