I want to begin this blog by stating this disclaimer that my blogs are controversial, but not necessarily biographical to me or any of my fellow counterparts. Thanks, mgmt. :-)
Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, I want to weigh in on a topic that a lot of women are struggling with…Titles. In a relationship, are titles such as “girlfriend,boyfriend” significant to have?
The answer to that question is YES. And let me further explain why it is. To minimize your relationship by saying phrases such as “we know what we are and that’s all that matters” is crap. Why?? Because just you and partner knowing is irrelevant. People aren’t mind readers, and everyone WILL NOT assume that you and your significant other are together unless you let them know. Therefore, you take a chance on creating an issue between you and your partner.
One thing I want our women to be clear on is that men are territorial over what they really want. If a man really cares for you, wants you, and doesn’t want anyone else to even do so much as smell you, he claims you. Meaning, if you and your partner go to a christmas party and your partner knows his cousin pookie is going to be there who is a fine, most-likely-to-pull-a-back-door-robbery man, will make it his business to let pookie and everyone else know that you are his “lady, woman, girlfriend”. In other words he is making his declaration that you are NOT to be approached by anyone. Thereforen if he doesn’t introduce you as such, then guess what?? That means you are nothing more than what he views you as. So, if he introduces you as a friend, then that’s all you are..a FRIEND. So when you minimize that factor in your relationship, you are basically sending out a message that basically reads…I’m SINGLE. No title means no comittment, no accountability, nothing. Which means ladies, that this is a recipe for disaster.
Love you all,
@SharieAmor
Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way, I want to weigh in on a topic that a lot of women are struggling with…Titles. In a relationship, are titles such as “girlfriend,boyfriend” significant to have?
The answer to that question is YES. And let me further explain why it is. To minimize your relationship by saying phrases such as “we know what we are and that’s all that matters” is crap. Why?? Because just you and partner knowing is irrelevant. People aren’t mind readers, and everyone WILL NOT assume that you and your significant other are together unless you let them know. Therefore, you take a chance on creating an issue between you and your partner.
One thing I want our women to be clear on is that men are territorial over what they really want. If a man really cares for you, wants you, and doesn’t want anyone else to even do so much as smell you, he claims you. Meaning, if you and your partner go to a christmas party and your partner knows his cousin pookie is going to be there who is a fine, most-likely-to-pull-a-back-door-robbery man, will make it his business to let pookie and everyone else know that you are his “lady, woman, girlfriend”. In other words he is making his declaration that you are NOT to be approached by anyone. Thereforen if he doesn’t introduce you as such, then guess what?? That means you are nothing more than what he views you as. So, if he introduces you as a friend, then that’s all you are..a FRIEND. So when you minimize that factor in your relationship, you are basically sending out a message that basically reads…I’m SINGLE. No title means no comittment, no accountability, nothing. Which means ladies, that this is a recipe for disaster.
Love you all,
@SharieAmor
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